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Saturday, 15 March 2008 06:36 by sabrina

It's okay to talk...

I don't know where she gets it from, but she is quite the talker.  She preaches about this and that and the other and babbles on and on and on about nothing.  It's become quite the norm especially at meal times.

I can't eat these Cherios!    There are just too many of them. And I am too tired.

Here she is telling us about why she can't eat her last two Cheerios.  She's trying to hid them from us by putting them out of her sight, right next to the edge of her tray.

But it's not okay to yell.

So for the past week or so every time we sit down to dinner, she of course gets her Cheerio appetizer and then we all eat our meal together.  She usually just has whatever we are having unless it's too spicy or what not.  Well lately as soon as she gets a bit of her dinner she begins to yell.  Different from screaming, her yelling is not high pitched or angry it's just very, very, very loud.  So she's made it a habit to yell during dinner.  Great.  Of course we tell her "Alyssa, stop!"  or "You need to be quiet!"  etc.  But of course that doesn't stop her, she just continues on.  So lately Luke is like, well every time she opens her mouth to yell I'm just going to shove some food in her mouth.  Right. So he does this and we both laugh and Alyssa just looks at us like 'huh, okay', eats her bite and attempts to yell again, but of course Luke is there with the spoon shoveling it in.  But then eventually she has so much food in her mouth she can't really chew AND she still manages to yell.  So eventually we have to call dinner quits and take her out of her chair and put her on the floor to play.   

 

So suggestions welcome...comment below.                        

I have a question!
Yes Alyssa, do you have a suggestion?
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March 19. 2008 17:16

That's what happens when a speech therapist has a baby!  You just can't seem to keep them quiet -- not even when bribing them with food. Smile  I like Luke's strategy though!  I can just picture you guys - poised on the edge of your seats - spoon ready to shovel the next bite into her mouth the minute the opportunity presents itself.  Ahhh, so entertaining - at least in my immagination it is.  Not sure how you kids feel about it. Tong  Sadly, I have no advice for you at this time.  Not having any kids of my own puts in at quite a disadvantage for offering any pearls of wisdom on this subject.  I'll start researching and get back to you though. Tong

Bridget

March 22. 2008 04:15

So, I don't really have much parental advice since I won't become a parent until on or around July 31st. However, my mom was a pretty good parent (still is). She's a 25 year veteran teacher and has a degree in child development. I'm planning on asking her about pretty much everything when Sweet Baby Jones comes.
Her advice is this: Shoving in food during yelling could lead to choking... She says to find something important to Alyssa like maybe a toy or something she really likes and let her have it at the table with her. When the yelling starts, take it away. This is especially easy if the thing she likes is food. Mom says I was only hungry one night or so before I quit singing at the table (I preferred singing very loudly to yelling).
Okay seriously, that's all I've got. My guess is she'll probably grow out of it eventually. Until then, I wouldn't take her with you on any romantic dates at quiet restaurants. Wink

Shelly

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